How To Be An Ally
BBBSMC believes Bigs are defenders of potential for their Littles, and it is important we take action now.
For those of us who are white, we must listen to the lived experiences of others, educate ourselves, and leverage our privilege to work against racism. It is not the responsibility of Black people, including your Little, to provide education or end racism. Rather, as a mentor to your Little, be open to what they have to share and be mindful of the grief and exhaustion they may be experiencing. Do not burden them by your own questions but support them in whatever ways you can. If you have a Little who is white, it is equally important to engage in these conversations and talk about what it means to be an ally in building a more just city and world.
As you look through these resources, do let us know if you find any particularly helpful or if there are additional resources that would be beneficial. If you have a resource you would like to share, please pass it our way. Just as you are there to support your Little, BBBSMC and your Match Support Specialist/Program Coordinator are here for any questions you have or support you need.
Websites/Articles For Education:
- · Anti-racism resources for white people
- Google Doc listing anti-racism resources including articles, podcasts, films, books, and other resources
- 10 Things Allies Can Do (above)
- How to Be Anti-Racist: A Social Worker’s Perspective
- Guide to Allyship
- From Civil Rights to Black Liberation: They’re Not Too Young to Young to Talk About Race
- Embracing Race
- Talking to Children About Community Violence
- Becoming Upended: Teaching and Learning about Race and Racism with Young Children and Their Families
- A Kids Book About Racism by Jelani Memory
- Four Tips For Having Healthy Conversations With Mentees About Race
- Black Pain, Black Joy, and Racist Fear: Supporting Black Children In A Hostile World
- Talking To Children After Racial Incidents
- Talking to children of different age groups about race
- Talking to children about George Floyd
- The Dos and Dont’s of Talking to Kids of Color About White Supremacy
- Resources For Talking About Race, Racism And Racialized Violence With Kids
- Effective Strategies for Mentoring African American Boys
- Not Just Black Girl Magic: What It Takes To Inspire And Support All Our Girls
Local Chicago Organizations to Learn From
- Westside Justice Center
- Black Lives Matter Chicago
- Chicago Community Bond Fund
- Brave Space Alliance
- Chicago Freedom School
- My Block, My Hood, My City
- Assata’s Daughters
Instagram Accounts to Follow